CHRISTIANS, do you believe God can show you who your spouse is going to be?

I think God gives us a choice in the matter so long as we follow a few stipulations. One man and one women is preferred. Wait till marriage committment between the two of you, preferably publicly proclaimed and legally allowed before sex. Make sure you are both Christians. That is pretty much the rules, which are for your own good. God wants what is best for you. Now go get married if it is consentual